Honest and Fake..........

I will share experiences of my life's journey ( though i had only completed 1/3rd of my life ....assuming i would live 85+ years ;) ) , in simple words, which may not leave you inspired, but will definitely help you to survive at least this life.But don't expect that i will show you the way to paradise :) . 

And if you follow my words then happiness (to some extent), creativity and success will follow on its own - or maybe not but you will have to live this life nevertheless. Don't come running after me if you are not able to achieve even a single one of them. But I assure you that you would applaud me at the end of this small speech and think that .....yeah this guy understand life not to the best of it but yaah to a better extent .

Journeys can be defined by age and time or even by destinations, as most often they are. But I feel it is hard for me to tell the story of my life in those terms because the concept of time has always eluded me. But i firmly believe that time is best medicine. It will not cure your pain completely but will work as anaesthesia and will keep you away from your past deeds ( categorically the bad ones ;)). Considering you are willing to allow time to inject anaesthesia in you . Remember, you have to move on in your life and never get stuck at any station. Life is like a train , don't get stuck at one station and don't let others to be the driver of your train.Don't get too much attach to anyone and don't let others to get over you. Everybody will leave you one day or other. Some will leave you because they had too and some without reason.Read this prayer somewhere and the writer couldn't have been more expressive "GOD grant me SERENITY to accept the things i cannot change,COURAGE to change the things I Can and WISDOM to know the difference."

Remember one thing "Change is the only constant thing in life" . Mark this golden words. It explains the whole life in 8 simple words.

Invest more in relationships.But don't expect returns.We human do that mistake every time and we have to pay the price at some stage.

It's always important to be in state of love to get best out of an individual. Love can be in any form.....You can be in love with your  Parents, Sister, Brother ,a girl, two girls ;) or a boy or any of your friend. It doesn't matter that you are in love with whom.........what matters is to be in state of love. I have been in love across all the category mentioned above (except the boy one :) .........though Gay marriage is now legal in many parts of world ;) ) . Jokes apart.........keep yourself in the state of love otherwise you would never know that whatever you are doing in life is for whom.You will be directionless/aimless. Understand the power of love. We youngster generally interpret love in wrong perspective. We think that loving a girl or rather beautiful girl is the only type of love which exist on this planet earth . In my case it was "Kristen Stewart" for a long span of life ......hahahahaha :).

Once my father told me when i was in standard four that "there can be substitute to your father but not your Mother." And he couldn't have been more expressive.Always respect your parents because they are the only one who will stand beside you till the end of your life.Parents want nothing in return, just respect their feeling, that's all.

Never ever try to imitate anybody. Be yourself. It's frustrating that I find myself living up to other people's interpretation of what I ought to be.It becomes a tight balance act, to keep doing what I do best and not be bothered by the reactions of people I do it for, in the first place.

Sometimes you would get hurt, feel tired, get frustrated but never give up.All I am is a fighter trying to balance my action and exterior reaction to my naked show of who I am inside. Learn to mock at yourselves too. Never become cynical about yourself. Becoming cynical about yourself or your life will destroy you at the end.

90% people don't care about your problem and rest 10% are happy to know that you have the problem (I will put myself in 90% category for most of the time....therefore it's not that I am untouched by these things.......But there are always 1% people for whom you matter everything and they matter everything for you. These 1% can be your family members, friends etc. But this 1% doesn't come under the same 100% mentioned earlier because they are beyond that 100% but are only 1%. I assume you got what i meant ;) ). So best way is don't discuss your problems with anyone. It's bullshit that people say that you will ease yourself by talking your problems with others. It's a myth. Face the issue/situation on your own because you are the originator of that problem and no one else, so don't expect others to solve your problem. You are alone doesn't mean that you are weak, It means that you are strong enough to handle all problems alone.

Success is a wonderful thing but we don't acquire wisdom from it. Therefore enjoy it ,feel it but don't try to push it hard on others. Will explain this in detail some other time in my next blog ( This space seems to be too small :) ). I had read "You can win" by shiv khera when i was in 12th standard and got inspired for 2-3 days but the tempo went down after couple of days. Motivation is a good thing but it needs to come from inside and not by someone else. I have always been terrified of failure since my childhood and that's the reason which kept me going. I am not trying to be pessimistic here but this is the truth of life,believe it or not.

So my friends, I am giving rest to my fingers here. I know that I have been contradictory to myself at many places but that's what I am.......Honest and Fake.